Tuesday, January 29, 2008

How to be a good boyfriend

Well, I guess there is something i should post for guys. Since there is a topic about " How to be a good girlfriend".

Okay, let's start and don't talk much.

1.Understand that every girl is different.
This is not a “one-size-fits-all” guide. This does however, give a good starting point for any relationship.

2.Let her know that you care for her by being interested in her.
This means INTERESTED, not obsessed, so don’t drop all of your activities and hobbies and take up hers.
**** Note
*She will find this bizarre and it will make you look dependent on her, and she will probably not like that. Just stick to your own thing, but acknowledge things she likes to do. ( you guys know la, all very girls are very ma fan, well, i have to agree this. LOL , coz being myself i also feel that myself sometimes very ma fan.)

3.Be honest.
While being honest to your mate is very important, to the point of being paramount, it is equally important that you be honest to yourself.
If something doesn’t suit her let her know, otherwise she will not trust your opinion. But make it sound like a compliment. Suggest an alternative.

*example : she is trying a clothes ( the clothes not suits her), and she ask for your opinion you should say " Hmm, I think the Black 1 suit you"( give her compliment, so that you won't hurt her, LOL, girls being girls, want to listen the truth and in the same time also want angry !!! )

** Step 4 is very important (ROFL !!!)
4.Remember that girls are often led to be much more emotionally oriented than men.

5.Don’t brush her off.

6.Communicate.
Make sure that if you have any problems that will affect your mood, she is made aware of the reasons for your problems and mood, so that you do not appear to merely be a fickle and cranky creature. Make her feel like she is the only girl on your mind. Just zone out everything around you when you’re talking to her, she will feel like she is the center of your universe. If you ask her a question, ask her because you really want to know.

~ Girls ma, is like that 1 lar.. so ma fan, yet so lovely !!! (wakaka!!!)

7.Give gifts at unexpected times. ( This Step must follow !!! Every girls surely like it!! But not the time you do something wrong only get her a present or gift... <--- often do that , they will know you patern of buying present for them. )

8.Try doing something unexpected.
Go to a new restaurant, try a new nightclub or go to a new part of town.

9.Tease her.
Teasing builds tension which drives girls crazy - for you! Some girls (and guys) find teasing unpleasant. Be sure you know which your girlfriend likes before teasing her.

10.Don’t forget: it’s better to give than to receive.
The major religions got this right, and for a good reason: mysteriously, you gain more in the long run by giving than by getting. While love isn’t all you need, it’s the most important thing.


**** LOL, eh don't complain a lot things need to do kay? I already cut short many !!! Just follow few is very very super super duper important also can at least be a NOT BAD boyfriend!!

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