Thursday, January 24, 2008

How to be a good girl friend

How to make your guy insanely happy by being a good girlfriend? ( When boy friend is having this kind of girl friend, the other will super jealous, lol, even though you don't have a girl friend like this, just tell your friend your girl friend "did" her part and being a good girl friend. Who knows if isn't real? haha... Just wanna show off and being the most happiness guy in their eyes. =P). And of couse, for girl can make your guys friends jealous that they don't have you!!

Step 1,

Involve him in conversations about things that interest you both. Avoid talking his ear off about a one sided topic. Such as "Yes, that Coach bag is adorable, but he probably doesn’t care." (Lol, Who cares? even if you told him, like he will get you 1? haha, just don't waste your time to made him bored of you.)

Step 2,

Be independent without clinging, stalking or sending an over abundance of emails/texts. This creeps men out and make you look needy. Usually missing someone surely will send tons of sms to your boy, but do your boy like it?

**** But , but most important in this part is, sometimes guys also need you girls to be clinging around when he was bored.( Oh, Man!!! So complicated, too independent they think you doesn't love him or miss him anymore, too clinging he will said too annoying !! Crap !! but what to do? Lol, guess have to practise your skills on playing kite, *Pull*(clinging) *Let it fly*(Don't bother) * Pull *(clinging) * Don't pull * (Don't bother ) * Pull * (clinging ) * Don't Pull *( Don't bother ) !!! and the kite is falling ( and the relationship is in danger ) !!!! NO!!! This is so call a relationship right? As you can see. ^^ )

Step 3,

Appreciate him in all ways ( What does that mean? Walao, means what ever he do and you didn't like it you also have to appreciate it , O.o this sounds like a christian's friend told me "LOVE your ENEMY"!! Hey, this really didn't make any sense. If I "LOVE my ENEMY" then the enemy won't be my enemy right? Why still says it as love my enemy? Is it because I have to love my enemy in order to change my enemy to become one of my friend? Lol, complicated again. And of cause love him as what ever it was, do not look to change him, because being oneself is most unique in the world. * I guess *

Step 4,

He doesn’t have to like your friends. He does have to be polite to them. Don’t yell at him for not liking them.

Step 5,

Have realistic expectations. Guys live on budgets too and unless your guy is rich, expensive restaurants and gifts will be the exception not the rule. ( Girls, if you are looking forward a boy friend can get you expensive gift and restaurants, I guess before you accept the guy, you have to aim properly, So that you can aim a rich guy that can full fill all you needs !! haha.. )

Step 6,

Be straightforward and avoid head games. But... but.. girls really like to play head games. Haha.. guys, do you know why? It is because girls are shy to split it out straight forward just like you guys. But, guys will so bored of playing head games, they will never know what girls thinking.)

Step 7,

Let him spend time enjoying the activities that he likes. See action movies with him or let him play his video games a fair amount of the time. * Treat him as in he is the KING of yours !!!, he is the greatest man !! * haha...

Step 8,

Be honest, loyal, and respectful.

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